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Thursday, August 13, 2009

The Passing of a Friend...


A few months ago, she complained about her back hurting... then with a hug, she received a couple of broken ribs. From there, the pain overtook her and she found out there was a mass when she was xrayed for her ribs.

Nancy sold on eBay and was known as PrimsandFancy. I haven't blogged for awhile and am checking my links to the right today and found hers there. I don't have the heart to remove it. It was the link to her eBay store.

About a year ago when the economy starting going downhill, she started closing some of her retail space and asked if I would like to help her sell some of her items. She would ship number 7 boxes filled to the top with her made in China wholesale items. She was a PowerSeller on eBay and strove for perfection everyday, every moment. She emailed me at least 5 times per day, giving me information on my listings, advice, and informing me of our competition and what was selling. She knew the business inside out...

A month before she passed, her emails diminished to one every three days or so. She told me she loved me in every single one of them, something she had never done in all the years of our friendship. The pain was so intense, that she could not sit at the computer for any length of time. She gathered some items together and sent me one last box. The hardest thing after she passed was looking at the items that were next to me on the floor, waiting to be listed. I eventually gathered up the strength deep within me to pick her things up and place them in the family room, with unsold items that she refused to "give away", and had been listed since the beginning of time it seemed...

Now, I am boxing up the items and dropping them off at the local Goodwill shop. Some things I am throwing into the trash next to me, as I sort through each prim and decide if it is worthy of keeping... deciding if Nancy's items would be someone else's treasures.

I am unlisting many items on eBay and will be relisting my quilt items again soon. The items that are not handmade by me, are most likely Nancy's goods. Remember... we are not promised tomorrow. RIP Nancy. I love you, too.

5 comments:

Baggaraggs: said...

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear friend. It is sometimes strange and wonderous, these dear friendships that form in cyberspace, the need we women have to reach out to each other and to give of ourselves. To connect one to the other. I am grateful for the friendships that I have formed on line, and I value everyone, as I am sure that your dear friend valued you.
I will Pray for your heart to be healed and that you can have comfort in your sadness. Love, Robin

Theresa said...

Makes you realize how precious life is. I am so sorry for the loss of your good friend.

*hugs*
Theresa

Country*Road*Primitives said...

Thank you so much Robin and Theresa... xox

Sarah said...

Ohhh I so deeply sorry for your loss. How painful to loose someone you were so close to. I am sending a hug. Blessings, Sarah

Country*Road*Primitives said...

Thank you Sarah xox